4 Drinks That Boosts And Kills Your Séx Drive

What drinks are putting you in the mood — and which ones are killing it?

Check out these latest research to reveal the beverages that boost your libido as well as the ones that suppress it so you'll know what to order come date night. 

1 . Soda

That diet soda from the vending machine is doing more harm than good. According to a study published in The New England Journal of Medicine, researchers found that chugging these artificially sweetened drinks can cause dental cavities, diabetes, obesity and bone loss ... not séxy.

The Verdict: Step away from the soda! If you're opting for diet sodas, chances are you're consuming an artificial sweetener called aspartame. This sugar substitute is notorious for causing headaches and low libido. Still craving something sweet? Add small drops of honey to your drink — the golden nectar is a natural aphrodisiac that supports the production of estrogen and testosterone, stoking desire in men and women. 

2. Ginseng Tea

... which leads us to the lesser-known "G" spot: ginseng! The natural properties in this herb make it a surprisingly potent aphrodisiac. Recently, researchers at the University of Hawaii found that women who took a ginseng supplement significantly upped their libido in a month. Similarly, a South Korean study found that the herbal remedy can help men combat erectile dysfunction.

The Verdict: Just think of ginseng as a natural alternative to Viagara — for you and your man. Boil a pot of ginseng tea over the stove and squeeze a lemon wedge or some drops of honey in for sweetness. And ginseng has also been touted as a protector against cold-weather colds, so you can be sure he'll be back for date number two. 

3. Gin And Tonic

If your guy has been less than interested in you after hours, his go-to date night drink just might be the culprit. This seemingly innocent cocktail is the ultimate mood-killer in a glass because of two main ingredients: One being gin, which like any alcohol, can inhibit your séx drive. And the other being quinine, the flavoring in tonic water, which is believed to lower testosterone levels according to research conducted by Germany's Institute of Reproductive Medicine.

The Verdict: This is one mixed drink to avoid at all costs.

4. Hot Chocolate

It's no secret mojo: Cocoa beans have been putting people in the mood for hundreds of years. In fact, a study from the Journal of Séxual Medicine found that women who ate chocolate every day reported higher séxual function scores than those who didn't.

The Verdict: This reason makes hot cocoa the date night drink, especially on a cold evening. After dinner, heat up a pair of decadent hot chocolates and cuddle up together. For a séxier version, add a dash of chili pepper (another secret aphrodisiac) for a potent, thick mug of Mexican hot chocolate.