It doesn’t matter the number of times you have been jilted or heartbroken, nor how badly you may think you need to love and be loved again, you have to be sure not to act out of desperation. If are looking to put yourself back out there and see what it holds, or if you are that person who hasn’t had much experiences; good for you. Whichever side you are, I would like to warn you that you need to look well enough before you leap.
This article focuses on the 10 types of guys you should try as much as possible to avoid and not date:
- The all about me guy
This type of guy tends to think the world has to stand still just to please him. He is not obsessed with his looks- but one thing is for sure, he’s obsessed with himself. He wants a girl who will just nod her head and smile in agreement to everything he wants or says. He doesn’t care what you want, or even who you are, because he makes all the choices and his preferences with no reference to your opinion.
- The Liar Guy
A relationship built on lies and without honesty, is really no relationship at all. Lie has never been and will never be a good foundation on which a relationship should be built.
It doesn’t matter if it’s a lie about his age, his past, his family or even his hair colour….a lie, is a lie. Some guys even lie about things that might not even matter. A man who hides nothing gives his woman a safe place to hide her heart.
- The uncertain guy
This type of guy will do anything to hold on to you through the emotional ups and downs.One moment you’re “the one” and the next moment he’s confused, confined, and and conservative. You had better watch it and not get stuck with such a guy.
- The out of sight out of mind guy
This guy is sweet, charming, flirtatious, and basically everything you imagined him to be, but he is only that way while you’re around. The moment you are away, he’ll be that same sweet, charming, and flirtatious guy with the next girl. For him, it’s not about commitment, it’s about the moment. That’s definitely not a guy you can trust.
- The ‘’keeping my options open” guy
Oh yeah, he says he’s interested. He might even tell you he’s in love. But then why can’t he let go of his past? Why do you find yourself worried about who else he’s interacting with, and how he’s interacting with them? With the right guy there are no options- there are only relationships. And healthy relationships can only develop and progress when the focus is on one person at a time.
- The all physical guy
This type of guy is always the blunt ones who make their aim obvious. He lures you to really think that he’s really into you; when all he wants is just to get into your clothes. But even with his obvious advances and emphasis on the physical, you’ll find yourself making excuses, giving more and more of yourself until it’s too late. Don’t get stuck in the physical, because healthy relationships are built on so much more than this.
- The partly spiritual man
This is the type of guy most girls would fall for. He lets you do whatever you want; he is ok with whatever makes you happy, even when it comes to your spiritual life. He may go to church on Sundays, and seem to have good morals, and know or say the right things. But deep down, he is not really what he seems.
- The not grown-up guy
This guy will make you feel more like his mom than his girl. He’ll have you taking care of him before you even know what hit you. And you’ll like it, because it will make you feel important. But what you don’t realize is that a relationship with this guy is sure to be one-sided. You deserve a partner- not someone who needs a parent.
- The history guy
This is the kind of guy who has a reputation with the ladies. This kind of guy often leaves a girl with a broken-heart. He has done that to strings of girls before you, and so, why on earth did you convince yourself that things would be different with you?
- The not that into you guy
I don’t know what it is about this guy, but let me warn you- he’s addicting. There’s just something about the “unknown” (does he like me, or not?) that keeps you guessing and coming back for more. You can recognize him in that he knows how to talk the talk, but his actions never seem to follow-suit. But the biggest problem with this kind of guy is that he’s using you for as long as you’ll stick around. So do yourself a favour and don’t stick around.
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