Kerry, a softly-spoken 33-year-old, admits: “The sight of
Hayley as our bridesmaid was absolutely heartbreaking. I didn’t think it
was possible for a mother to feel so proud as I did then. I never
thought I would see Hayley so happy and so beautiful.”
“She was such a perfect baby – but when she was first diagnosed with
this awful disease, I honestly couldn’t see any way forward.I would wake
in the morning and think of getting in the car with Hayley, driving
somewhere quiet and feeding a hosepipe from the exhaust in through the
window. I thought, we would both die painlessly.”
“The diagnosis was so terrible that I could see no future for us at
all. Mark and I had been ripped apart. Suicide – and taking Hayley with
me – seemed the only way out. I would watch Hayley while she slept and
feel such pangs of love for her. Then I’d be hit by shock, worrying what
her future held. When she was born, she was so beautiful, just like any
other baby, and our future as a family seemed so assured.
“But since she was diagnosed, life has been simply terrifying.”
Now, though, there is hope. The family have flown to America, to
Boston, for pioneering treatment which may stop the ageing process and
save their daughter’s life.Their extraordinary battle began ten years
ago when Kerry, then a cook, met carpenter Mark Okines, now 44. Two
months later, she discovered she was pregnant.She smiles at the memory.
“I loved Mark and really wanted a baby. So, although it was early on in
our relationship, it felt totally natural and we were delighted.”
The pregnancy was completely normal, and when Kerry went into labour
just three days past her due date, there was nothing to suggest their
baby would be anything but healthy.Kerry says: “It was a long labour,
lasting four days, but when Hayley was born I forgot about the pain in
an instant. She weighed 6lb 6oz, and with her fine blonde hair she was
simply gorgeous.She gazed up at us with those beautiful big blue eyes
and both Mark and I just fell in love with her. We were instantly
besotted.”
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